1-2-3 Magic: 3-Step Discipline For Calm, Effective, And Happy Parenting

PREFACE
A NUMBER OF YEARS ago a young mom came in to my office. She was a single mother of three and she was thirty-three years old. When she sat down and I had a good chance to look at her, I could see that Sarah looked like she had been run over by a truck.

When I asked the young woman what had brought her in to see me, she said, “Dr. Phelan, I don’t want to get out of bed in the morning. It’s horrible. I just lie there, pull the covers over my head, and cringe.” “Why don’t you want to get up?” I asked. “The thought of getting my three kids up and ready for school is horrible. It’s absolutely horrible!” she said. “They don’t cooperate, they fight, they treat me like I’m invisible. I scream, I yell, I nag. The whole thing is so upsetting that it ruins my day. I can’t concentrate at work and I’m depressed.